so I did the best manager you ever had to motivate you to perform well why did that made him work so I remember a manager, his name is Anthony so what he did was um like something happened he literally recreate the situation and during that moment is like okay I'm gonna be with you let me show what to do and after that he trusted me and he believed in me oh I know you can do this then we talk then it's like it's like it create like a family it's like a safe environment and I felt safe and I was able to make better decisions and be better at what the situation is. The element of work is communication so when someone communicate with me and support me even if I do something you know bad it's perfect but now so motivate me to do better next time and I learned from that mistake I made so it literally showed me that way so yeah it works