 I actually look up to two people in my life. One would be my father who was in the military for 26 years and being that he's traveled around the world. He's really implemented in my mind that there are over 8 billion people in this world to focus on just the group that people that you live in in your community. So that there's always going to be someone else that either has thought what you thought on the other side of the world or you know they're going through the exact same thing that you're going through on the other side of the world and to learn different perspectives and different cultures. Another person that I look up to for wisdom on self would be my best friend because he's very he's a very generous person but he has strong boundaries for himself that if things don't benefit him and will eventually hurt him he's not going to reach out and does say a lot of boundaries for himself that will protect himself and me being a kind open type of person. I like to look to both him and my father because both of them do also set up this ground foundation rule for themselves that if it doesn't contribute to what I'm doing for my goals and my plans outside of being nice, don't let it affect you.