I Look up to my mom for wisdom because she had me very young. So I watched her go from Having to work three jobs and I just watched her pull herself up by her bootstraps in her 30s She went to school got a degree now. She has a really awesome job makes a lot of money and I've watched her go from Struggling to being comfortable now and what I've learned from that is if you Want change if you want something you have to work for it. You have to there's no excuses. You can't have it excuses that is something she always said was no excuses if you want something you have to work for it and that always like It speaks a lot to me because I've watched her do it and I know that it works