The best manager that I've ever had was when I worked at Arbor Care Center's Valhaven. Her name was Barb, and she would just talk in the most respectful way. If you did mess something up, it would be okay. She would always say, don't cry over spilled milk, and she would just tell you her way of doing it, and see if it works for you, and give you any other options of a way to do it, and just see with everybody else what the best way to do it is, and just not give you too much criticism, more positive than negative.